Truth's from the baseball field
One of my favorite quotes and principles of all times is:
"You can have everything in life you want, if you just help enough other people get what they want."
This principle carried me through almost every phase of my collegiate career. It literally was some of the
'leadership glue' that brought all of the areas of my life together so that I became one person where ever I was.
It's easy to be a
chameleon and Truth someone different in every environment but standing tall in who you are no matter the circumstances is the true test.
Well that's a post for another time, so this afternoon, I was thinking about Zig's quote when I was at a local baseball field hanging with one of my small group guys and his buddy who plays on the baseball team with him. I was having mini flashbacks to
my high school days on the baseball team when I used to dream about playing college baseball and/or football.
Today, I was particularly thinking about my sophomore year when I was a shortstop on the varsity team and all I could think about most of that year was
"baseball is my ticket into college" and "I gotta do better this year". I had won R
ookie of The Year my freshman year on the varsity baseball team for our region and I led the team in home runs, batting average, and on base percentage that year as well so going into my sophomore year I was really focussed on being better than I was the previous year, which was hard coming of a .525 batting average and .800 on base percentage.
Anyway, that year was all about me! I loved my team, coaches, the atmosphere, etc. but when I really looked at what I was trying to do it was "be the best". Oddly enough that year, I improved a little bit but rolling into my Jr. year a LOT changed! That year I knew that if I stayed healthy I would definitely be going to a D-1 School whether it be in football or baseball so there was no more "pressure to perform", I just needed to stay healthy.
That Jr. year something inside of me changed to, I felt this need to "help"... I felt like I could help the coaches more by helping my teammates excel, so I kinda became a cheerleader. No, not the ones with the pom poms and the high kicks....although that would have looked hilarious...I began to really cheer on my teammates. Before it was, hurry up and bat, so I can wow people with how hard I hit the ball, or hit it hard to me so I can make a great play. That Jr. year, I legitimately wanted my teammates to hit the ball, get on base, make their catches and throws, and succeed. This is when I really discovered what I call "The Joy of Team" (I'll write about this later).
Up to this point I hadn't ever heard Zig's quote, I just knew there was something special about being on a team and wanting "THE TEAM" to win! This is something that kept growing inside of me until the time I was at Notre Dame and heard this quote from Zig.
Here's the truth about my athletic career: I really did find myself excelling more when I focussed less on me and more on team.
Leadership translation: Who's on your team and do you really want them to succeed or are they merely people to help you get accomplished what you desire to accomplish?
(I know that's a long way to get to that but I had a blast at the baseball fields today and wanted to share what was on my heart after hanging with the guys)