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Great insights about Leading from the Middle

Are you stuck in the "middle" of your organization/team?

Here's a great article by Griff & Kurt

If you are a youth pastor at your church – you are stuck in the middle. Chances are, you are a few steps removed from the top leadership position (lead pastor) and probably at least one step removed from the bottom (church janitor). Is it possible to lead while being positioned like this? We think so! Here are a few suggestions that will help you have upward influence:

  • Honor the Decision You Disagree With
  • Speak Up
  • Support the leaders above you
  • Shape Decisions Behind Scenes
  • Be a Team Player
  • All this team talk is speaking my language! Read the full article HERE.

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    Next up for me in the coming months

    Humbled to be a part of this amazing team! God I hope to bring you glory through this experience!

    Go here to register asap!

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    Favorite things about NYWC 2011

    1. Connecting with some great people.

    Met lots of great people over the weekend and I'm looking forward to staying connected throughout the year. There are lots of awesome people in the Student Ministry world. Love the community we're in!

    2. Learning from great leaders

    I get inspired by other thinkers, whether they're on platform or not. It helps me refine my ability to follow God's call and lead others I'm on the journey with to do the same. These sorts of environments remind me I never want to be on this journey alone! Thank God for a great staff and other great leaders in the game.

    3. Supporting some great organizations/people

    YOUTH SPECIALTIES, YOUTH WORKS, REMEDY LIVE, DJ PROMOTE & PROPAGANDA, COMPASSION INTERNATIONAL, GROUP, THE TABLE, HELLO SOMEBODY, SHANE AND SHANE, DAVID CROWDER BAND, BUILDING 429, to name a few.

    4. Being able to share the few things God's laid on my heart regarding student ministry leadership for our future with other youth workers who are in the trenches as well.

    Hope I was a little helpful to all you guys. Thanks for coming to the seminars and being AWESOME!

    Humbled by the experience and pray there are many more!

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    3 Reasons Student Ministry will ALWAYS have a place in the local church

    (GSM Worship)

    I feel like I could write a book on this because there are so many more reasons (outside of these 3) that Student Ministry will always have a place. Just decided to pick 3 as they are on my mind as I'm doing final prep for some workshops I'm teaching down at National Youth Workers Convention this coming weekend.

    1. Student Ministry done right, has a relational dynamic that can't be matched anywhere else in the church.

    When student ministries are helping students connect with each other and other Godly leaders, the bond/camaraderie cannot be touched with a 10 foot pole. Not going to go into the psychology of it right now but it's been proven for decades. THEN it's the student ministries job to connect those same students/leaders BACK to the larger local church body.

    Being blunt, the biggest mistake a student ministry can make is NOT using their relational equity to connect students to the larger church body. Sure there are other REALLY big mistakes student ministry can make, but assuming the basics are covered, this one is a big/common miss.

    2. Families will always need outside voices to reinforce their Godly wisdom/parenting.

    If you've interfaced with a lot of parents you will hear time and time again, "I've said that for years" or "I say that ALLLLLLLLLLL the time" "....but since you said it, they actually believe/trust it". It's true, sometimes parents can talk until their blue in the face but sometimes until at least one other person they love/respect affirms it, their kids don't fully believe/get it.

    3. Students like hanging out with each other and gathering together around content that interests them in their present form.

    Not to say that non-student ministry service are irrelevant to students because that's the furthest thing from the truth in our church context here at Granger. We actually have made a staff vow (within our GSM Staff Team) to NEVER try to 'compete' with the weekend service....frankly because we can't, haha they're amazing! BUT we do have a unique space where we can drill down deep on exactly what's going on in the demographics of teens in our area and adopt a missionary mindset to specifically target how to reach them with the Gospel.

    So there's just a few, hope the ebook that I just wrote (here in this post) wasn't too long for you to wade through. ;)

    Rock on and Keep it real!

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    The Most Creative People in your church are your kids

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    GSM After Hours 9-26-11

    Our parent panel yesterday was incredible?!! So blessed by their wisdom! 20110926-024137.jpg
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    Orange Week: Second Favorite Session from 2011, Kara Powell

    Been writing all week with these guys about Orange Coming up in April. To let you guys know that registration is open and to give you some of my perspective on how Orange has impacted me.

    One of the sessions I loved at Orange last year was Kara Powell's session on Sticky Faith. Kara and her team are pushing the ball really far down the field for guys like me who don't have time to DO the research but desperately need to research to continue to provide the very best ministry for students that we possibly can.

    This content for me was invaluable for this season of ministry we're in. We're in the process of developing our "Family Ministry" structure so I really needed to hear a lot of the content she had to say. Some of it reinforced what I already knew from surveying in our context here but so much of it was new! Plus I love being able to back up the realities of student culture with "well done" studies that give us church leaders legs to stand on when making shifts that necessary and challenging at the same time.

    Here's a quick hit overview of my favorite things from that session.

    She early on in the session brought to the surface the reality that "40-50% of students will graduate our churches youth ministry and drift from the faith"...while also adding that "80% of kids who drifted INTENDED to stick with their faith"....yet they still drifted. This was/is sobering but not shocking. The question worth wrestling with tied to that is, in light of that reality, how should we do kids and student ministry so that that is no longer the reality?

    She made us pick a kid that we wanted to see Sticky Faith grow. This made it personal. Talking theory is one thing but when you make me think about specifically WHO I want to have 'Sticky Faith' it gets serious! I love that she pushed us to THAT point!

    She talked about "The Sticky Gospel" and that we shouldn't allow our ministries to be the "Red Bull view of the Gospel" - Start off strong and high energy, then lose steam and ultimately 'crash', like we do with Caffeine. She pointed out that it barely gets them through high school but it doesn't fundamentally change them.

    She posed this question that I've been using on students in various environments (mission trips over the summer, camp, small group, mentoring, etc.): 'what does it mean to be a Christian'? When they (Fuller) conducted this study they recorded that 1/3 of the students that took the survey didn't mention Jesus in their answer!

    Question: Parents, do your kids know how you became a Christian? Talk to them about it.

    Statement: "If we don't let our kids/students ask questions about their faith they will stop asking"

    Statement: We have to be careful not to turn the gospel of Christ into the gospel of sin management.

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    Orange Week: Favorite session from 2011

    Andy Stanley's session ROCKED ME in the most amazing way!

    There was GOBS of amazing info but the phrase that got to me...."The church is more important than you will ever know."

    When I first heard that I was like..."yes I do!" Who is "Andy Stanley" to TELL ME I don't know I don't know how important something is..." hahahaha yeah I know....I had a bit of an attitude of being TOLD I don't know something. This was the beginning of my humbling experience at ORANGE 2011...

    So then I actually thought about it and realized I had never actually thought about "how important" the 'Church' really is/was in history! Being a guy who'd been about building/growing/equipping the local church through helping students for 10 years time (4 years formally employed by a church) this KILLED ME! ...and I needed that heart surgery!

    After the conference, I challenged myself to PROVE that the Church is important by the way I live and lead! I don't have it all figured out yet but Andy's session SHAPED a new framework for me to lead with.

    If you haven't considered going to ORANGE this coming spring, you should really think about it. Andy will be speaking again and to be straight up...I've never heard him 'miss'

    Tomorrow I'll write about my second favorite session and it's lACED with essential content from Kara Powell on why "Orange" is even necessary! Stay tuned and I will take Friday and try to convince you that if you really care about the development of Kids and Students you CANNOT afford to miss Orange this spring.

    REGISTRATION IS OPEN!!!!!

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    Come hang with me in April

    Click HERE to find out where I'll be!
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    Orange Week: Want to be a game changer?

    When I was playing ball, so much of the game was about momentum. Building it, growing it, taking it. Every now and then there was a play that changed the course of the ENTIRE game...these were called "game changers".

    The thing about the 'game changer' was that it not only altered the entire game, it actually affected how YOU played the rest of the game and sometimes the rest of the season!

    The best players on every team are not always the most talented but they ARE the ones that can recognize when momentum has shifted and/or a 'game changer' has occurred and then jump all over the opportunity with poise and conviction!

    That's one facet of ORANGE CONFERENCE that I love! It facilitates a conversation that helps us identify the big changes influencing this next generation and gives us a boat-load of tools to be equiped to jump into the game and take full advantage of those game changing moments!

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