Lou Holtz Wisdom!

“Former Notre Dame football coach Lou Holtz tells the story of the fellow who was driving on a slippery country road when he slid into a ditch. He walked to a farm house a short distance away and approached the old farmer who received him warmly. When the motorist described his problem, the farmer stated that he did not know if he could help him or not, but he would do what he could. He explained that his old mule, Dusty, was blind and somewhat hard of hearing. The farmer hitched up the old mule and hooked him to the frame of the car. Next, he got behind old Dusty and in a loud voice said, “Pull, Charlie, pull!” No response. Once again, in a loud voice he said, “Pull, Billy, pull!” Nothing. Then, in a still louder voice, “Pull, Sally, pull!” Not a move. Finally he said, “Pull, Dusty, pull!” and Dusty proceeded to pull the car out of the ditch.

The grateful motorist, somewhat puzzled, asked the farmer, “You had only one mule and yet you called on ‘Charlie,’ ‘Billy,’ and ‘Sally,’ with no response. But the minute you called on Dusty he pulled the car out of the ditch. Why did you do it that way?” The old farmer smiled and said, “Well, Dusty’s getting a little old and doesn’t believe he’s as strong as he used to be. As a matter of fact, he’s gotten downright negative and if he’d thought he had to do it by himself, he probably couldn’t have. But, when he thought he had three other mules helping, he gave it his best shot and did it all himself”

Post-Easter Quick Hit: Put yourself out there

 

This will be harder for those who are introverts but I’d encourage you to give it a shot.  Put yourself out there!

Most people often respond to life’s challenges/growths by isolating themselves from others.  Regarding ‘Post-Easter’ movement, this can be a bad move!

What you need right now is to find community.  One of the main reasons people walk away from church is because they didn’t find community, usually blanketed in statements like “I couldn’t meet anybody”, “I was there X amount of time and never really met anybody”…When people in our church say that to me I usually ask them “have you put yourself out there” or “are you serving anywhere”?  These questions doesn’t serve any other purpose than to help people see that relationships are a two way street and it takes both sides ‘putting themselves out there‘ for it to work.  This isn’t a perfect formula by any means but it works a lot of the time.

So Post-Easter, if you’re looking for what to do next, here’s a great step: Don’t isolate yourself on this journey, put yourself out there and look for ways to get involved.  Not everyone in church is available or capable of helping or being there for you but within every church there are places for people to join groups, ministry teams, serving opportunities, etc.

So, don’t shut everyone out and get lost in your head trying to figure all this “God-stuff” out on your own.  Get out and about, network, make time for new friends and share your world with them!!!

Post-Easter Quick Hits: Don't take it personal

So you went to church on Easter and you remembered the price that Jesus paid for YOU!  You felt something stirring in your heart and as much as you tried to fight it, it was still there 5 hours later when you were eating Easter dinner with the family.  Yesterday & Today you woke up hoping it wouldn’t be there any more but it’s there and now you’re compelled to act on it.

You’re at the place where you’re ‘sick and tired of being sick and tired‘….you’re tired of ‘trying harder’, ‘doing more‘, ‘feeling guilty‘, and ‘wearing your mask‘.  You want to change…

Well a good thing to remember when you start to take those steps is that not everyone will agree with you changing….have you ever noticed that LOTS of people around you have strong opinions & idea about the person YOU should be?  It’s amazing to me how many people think they know what “I” should do.

Well, I want to say up front….“don’t take it personal”.  No matter what you do in life, you’ll get criticized by someone at some point!

This is especially true when you make moves towards changing your life.  The quicker you realize that criticism is inevitable, accept it, and stop taking everything personal—the quicker you can breathe a sigh of relief AND MOVE ON TO THE THINGS GOD HAS FOR YOU IN YOUR FUTURE!!

Post-Easter Quick Hits: Take your mask off

Right where you are is the best place to start.

Pretending you’re at a place where you’re not isn’t helpful and it actually delays the process of growth. So go ahead and give yourself permission to ‘take your mask off’.

This way, you don’t have to pretend.  You don’t have to say things you really don’t mean, you don’t have pretend that everything is perfect and put on a front to impress others…

 

Quick hit: The past is the past

Focus only on the present!

The past is unchangeable so it is futile to reflect on it unless you are making sure you do not repeat past mistakes.

The future is the result of our actions today. So learn from the past to do better in the present so that you can succeed in the future.

Quick Hit: Smile more often

 

 

Smile more often.  Try it!

When you smile, your brain releases serotonin, the happy hormone, thus making your more LIKELY to be happier or more joyful or in a better mood.  (Definitely not an exact science and I’m no expert in this area but if you want to be more happy/joyful give it a shot.

This isn’t some super spiritual principle, no need to “go there” but just give this a shot and see if you’re in a better mood.

(Note: This is one of those “willpower” things that works for some and is terrible for others, so if this isn’t your cup of tea…sorry)

AT&T dreamed our New Normal

Check out this video with Commercials FROM 1993!  Today all of these things are Normal for us.  It’s our country’s New Normal.

As a country we’re paving the way, today, for things that will be the New Normal for our children and their children, tomorrow!

I’m praying we have the right leadership in place to dream those dreams with the right BIG PICTURE in mind!  God is love!

 

Quick hit: How do I DO college?

 

I’ve been talking to a lot of high school students recently who are trying to plan for college and post-college and there seems to be a lot of stress involved in “HOW” to do college.  The questions this year have had a different spin than previous years it hasn’t been so much about “which college to go to” but more about “what should I be doing in college”?

This is a great question.  I don’t believe I’m the expert on this or anything but I thought I’d throw out this little thing I learned along the way that I’ve been sharing with these students.

One thing that I’ve found to be helpful when wrestling with these questions is: Take a step back and figure out what your goals and dreams are first!

It seems that many people are wander aimlessly through life going for whatever they want at the moment.  Sometimes this is great, other times it could lead to a place you never intended to be.  Another option is to decide what your perfect life (or God’s preferred future for your life) looks like and begin to put steps into motion to reach that place.

As this applies to how to “DO” college, which courses do you need to take ‘now’ so that you will be where you intend to be ‘then’…and take those courses, pick that major, or study in that place/location.

One of the most rewarding things in this world is overcoming a challenge and reaching a goal…it’s something that seems to be bred into us ;) .  Most of us enjoy growing and working towards something better.

That’s all I got on that.  Hope it was helpful for some.