It’s Official Wk 3 Video Message

We don’t post a lot of our messages for GSM but I was out of town at Simply Youth Ministry Conference this past week so I figured I’d...

It's Official Wk 3 Video Message

SYMC2010 Nicole C. Mullen Concert Photos

These are just a few photos I took from the Nicole C. Mullen concert at SYMC2010. This is BEFORE I started balling in the concert.  When...

SYMC2010 Nicole C. Mullen Concert Photos

SYMC2010 Saturday Night Session Notes & Photos

(Art by an amazing artist at SYMC2010. Didn’t catch his name, if you know comment and I’ll add it) Session 3 –...

SYMC2010 Saturday Night Session Notes & Photos

SYMC2010 Saturday Morning Session Notes & Photos

(Bo Boshers – aka my new Student Ministry Hero) My Favorite lines of this morning: Who am I letting follow in my wake? ...

SYMC2010 Saturday Morning Session Notes & Photos

SYMC2010 Friday Night Session Notes & Photos

I POSTED A FEW OF MY RANDOM PHOTOS FROM FRIDAY HERE. Session 1 – PASSION – by Duffy Robbins MY FAVORITE LINE OF THE...

SYMC2010 Friday Night Session Notes & Photos

My Dream Vacation

Thinking about some down time I have coming up in a couple of weeks for Spring Break and I’ve been thinking about how I’m going to use that time to recharge.  I’m pretty easy to please when it comes to vacation.
My idea of a dream vacation:

Brooke, Jada, and Gino
Quiet lake house
Boat for fishing
a frig and [...]

How to engage this 2010 version of teenagers

Sitting in my hotel room at Kalahari Resort (I’m speaking at a retreat this weekend) and found this in one of my Evernote folders from last September and thought it was worth posting.  Have no idea where I clipped it from off the internet but I think this is good stuff to know, especially considering [...]

Questions for every Student Ministry Part 1

Questions for every Student Ministry Part 1

Do we have a clear, elevating goal that compels people to serve?
THE 3 KEY WORDS: 1. CLEAR 2. ELEVATING 3. COMPELLING
~Is what you’re asking of your leadership teams clear?
~Is the trajectory you’re leading people going up, flatlined, or declining?
~Does it compel people into action
Question is from :
~Carl E. Larson & Frank M. J. LaFasto, Teamwork:  [...]

10 reasons our Dating/Sex series worked

10 reasons our Dating/Sex series worked

Just finished our dating/sex series at GSM High School last night and here’s a few tips that helped make the series a huge success for us.

Do the series. Don’t dodge the topic. Simple.
Do the series for the right reasons. Do the series because you love students enough to want them to know the [...]

Jason Mraz blessed me today

Thinking back on the weekend retreat I just spoke at over in Ohio at Kalahari Resort I kept thinking about this song. There’s a line in the song that asks a good question that challenges me every time I hear it.  The line is…
So what do you do when God moves through you…?

My Dream Vacation

Thinking about some down time I have coming up in a couple of weeks for Spring Break and I’ve been thinking about how I’m going to use that time to recharge.  I’m pretty easy to please when it comes to vacation.

My idea of a dream vacation:

  1. Brooke, Jada, and Gino
  2. Quiet lake house
  3. Boat for fishing
  4. a frig and pantry full of food for home cooking
  5. lots of lemonade
  6. sunshine

Jason Mraz blessed me today

Thinking back on the weekend retreat I just spoke at over in Ohio at Kalahari Resort I kept thinking about this song. There’s a line in the song that asks a good question that challenges me every time I hear it.  The line is…

So what do you do when God moves through you…?

Confession to old school Christians

Since today is DC Talk Day on my blog (not intentional but it’s turning into that) I figured I’d confess something.

Confession #1: Before coming on staff at Granger in 2006 I didn’t know Toby Mac was in DC Talk

There is a FUNNY story about how I found out not only was he IN DC Talk but that he was the lead.

Confession #2: All I knew about DC Talk growing up was that they had a black guy in their group.

I grew up on Gospel music not…well DC Talk-like music.

To all the old school Jesus Freaks out there: I ask for your grace in helping me through with these confessions. ;)

Seth and I totally missed it

Just saw this video and realized Seth and I should have watched this to get some “moves” before we shot our video…wow, 1994 feels like 16 years ago…o wait.  This made me laugh, check out the outfits and HAIR!

I don’t want your sex video

Here’s a goofy little video we made for GSM High School instead of doing song special for it.  We didn’t change any of the lyrics so it’s not a true parody…but it totally is a parody by definition, but not.  We played this right before the message.

This is “I don’t want it” by DC Talk from like 1935…I mean  1992…I was 11.

“I Don’t Want It” from Jeffrey Myers on Vimeo.

10 reasons our Dating/Sex series worked

Just finished our dating/sex series at GSM High School last night and here’s a few tips that helped make the series a huge success for us.

  1. Do the series. Don’t dodge the topic. Simple.
  2. Do the series for the right reasons. Do the series because you love students enough to want them to know the truth about dating/sex.  Don’t do it just because you want attendance to jump, or to push buttons, or for the shock value.
  3. Be honest. If students sniff that you’re not being real with them, they’ll shut down and assume you don’t believe what you’re teaching.
  4. Don’t beat around the bush. Student gave lots of feedback that they were glad and it was “helpful” that we “went there“.  If you’re going to bring up the topic, give them something of substance. Truth: most of them already know more than you can ever appropriately share from the platform anyway.
  5. Get good research and a variety of resources to bring diversity to the platform. We can only share what we know, so the more we know the more we can share.
  6. Don’t give-in to “humor first”. It’s great to be funny (and you should be, students love it) but if that’s the #1 method for teaching this topic students leave only knowing your jokes, not the Truth that will really help them in this area.
  7. Encourage deeper conversation and processing in small groups. Students need a safe, Godly place to dialog about these things…they’re talking about them already so
  8. Awkwardness. I don’t really know how…but it helped, haha.  (Got lots of these comment, “like, oh my gosh, like, THAT, like, was the most awkward GSM ever, like, wow, but, like, it was, like, a-mazing!”)
  9. Push the envelope. Standard/normal is boring so find ways to change things up.
  10. Think like a high schooler and a shepherd.  Both matter.

How to engage this 2010 version of teenagers

Sitting in my hotel room at Kalahari Resort (I’m speaking at a retreat this weekend) and found this in one of my Evernote folders from last September and thought it was worth posting.  Have no idea where I clipped it from off the internet but I think this is good stuff to know, especially considering it’s about time to rediscover some of our foundational roots in the life of the Church (Big C.) which SHOULD affect the way we do student ministry.

If we just keep doing the same things, we’ll keep getting the same results…and it seems odd to keep doing the same things when student culture changes more and more every year.

In our area around Granger, there are LOTS of students who don’t go to a church at all and don’t really want to set foot in a church (neither do their parents, which makes it even more of a challenge)…but it’s ok because they’re good people (sarcasm).  SO, I’ve been wrestling with for about 6 months now, how do we take GSM TO them!  (I’ll say more about this later sometime)

Here’s the post I found helpful as I process how to pioneer this movement.:

Engaging Millennials = Enabling Discovery + Energizing Experience + Encouraging Advocacy

Of course, this formula presumes you have a relevant product and positioning. If not, you have more problems than simply breaking through. But assuming for a moment you have cleared the Product, Placement and Pricing hurdles, how should you go about Promoting your brand to Millennials? Let’s unpack this formula a bit:

Enabling Discovery

No one wants to be told what to do, what to like and what to think. That is especially true of Millennials, who have an instant aversion to anything that smacks of ‘marketing’. They want to believe that they have uniquely discovered the things they like. That’s not to say that mass brands are not appealing, as Obama can tell you. But mass brands don’t start with any advantage. The ideal way for a Millennial to first experience a product or service is to discover it for themselves. Think of ‘Stumbleupon’ as the model.

This feeling of ‘discovery’ underlies the success of Dr. Horrible’s Sing-A-Long Blog and Tom’s Shoes. Discovery is social currency, you can spend it with friends (or wider) and increase your personal brand. Discovery is the dynamic that drives marketing for restaurants, music, wine and microbrews. (For more on the social dynamic behind wine’s growing popularity, see my earlier post, “A Perfect Pairing”).

Achieving a sense of ‘discovery’ is no accident. It means creating events where Millennials can meet the brand, as Red Bull has done so successfully. Or creating a smash viral video. Social media, social media, product placement, and sampling are all good ‘discovery’ media.

Energizing the Experience

This is literally having a brand experience worth writing home about, one that not only meets the minimums for efficiency, personalization and value, but that goes over and above expectations. Success with Millennials requires being distinctive; they love ’shiny’ things.

Marketers at Apple, Nike, Zappos, Jamba Juice, Red Bull, Zipcar, Vogue magazine and other beloved, ‘iconic’ Millennial brands understand that to be remarked upon, you must literally beremarkable for something inherent in the user or customer experience. This can be accomplished through customization, design, ease of access, or price (free works especially well). However it is accomplished, it must be both authentic and fresh to overcome the impressive filters Millennials have perfected. The experience must be fun, compelling or unique or you will never get to the third and final step of the formula: advocacy.

Encouraging Advocacy

If this was a real formula, ‘advocacy’ is the variable that would have an exponent after it. Advocacy is the thing that makes Millennial marketing unique today, and is likely to be the biggest change to mainstream marketing in the future.

Yesterday I had a wonderful conversation with Sarah Newton, a radio celebrity, Twitter friend, and author of the blog,GenYGuide.com. Sarah lives in Northampton, England. Despite the being oceans apart, we agreed on many things, above all that Gen Y is unique. We also speculated the thing that makes them unique, perhaps in all history, is access to platforms to broadly communicate and share their ideas. This ability alone may make the gap between Gen Y and earlier generations more striking than any previous gap, or possibly any to come (profound thought isn’t it?). A new global study of 9000 -27 year olds by YouGovStone reached a similar conclusion: ”The digital revolution has not only given this generation of young people access to knowledge and information on an unprecedented scale, but it has also given them massive influence.”

Mobilizing that influence requires making it easy to access and share information with peers. Facebook, YouTube, Twitter, topic-specific blogs, and opinion sites like Yelp are all ways to encourage Millennials to talk to each other about your brand. Of course, talking about brands is not something Millennials are inclined to do without good reason. That’s why so many brands have found success by associating with worthy causes, or highlighting their support of environmental or humanitarian initiatives. Advocacy efforts take many forms, both long term and short term promotions (Starbucks Project Red, Taco Bell Feed the Beat). For more immediate sharing, brands are experimenting with mobile applications and widgets, like DryncWine.com. However it’s done, advocacy via social media is now a critical part of any youth marketing effort.

My final words of advice on reaching Millennials is much simpler:take time to get to know them. If you are over 30, the worst mistake you can make is thinking they think like you do. Listen to Millennials, at home and in the office. They will give you the best advice about how to reach others like them.

It’s Official Wk 3 Video Message

We don’t post a lot of our messages for GSM but I was out of town at Simply Youth Ministry Conference this past week so I figured I’d post the message clips from this past week’s services.

We’re in a Relationships series titled “It’s Official”.

Week 1: Who are you yoked with

Week 2: Slow Fade

Week 3: Restoration

Week 4: Let’s talk about Sex

Flow: We broke up the message into 3 Parts and put a song special before the first video and after the second video, then rolled worship after the last video.

Song Special: “Mess of Me” by Switchfoot

Restoration Message – Part 1 from Jeffrey Myers on Vimeo.

Restoration Message – Part 2 from Jeffrey Myers on Vimeo.

Song Special: “Amazing Grace” – remixed/customized

Restoration Message – Part 3 from Jeffrey Myers on Vimeo.

(I took the 3 points in the last video from Doug Fields.)

Another 2 feet of snow?

I wish this was in Granger.  My friend John White sent this to me and cracked me up…

It’s not an adventure if…

(Pic I took of Rick at the SYMC2010)

“If there isn’t a possible of danger it isn’t really an adventure, or if there isn’t a some challenge it might not be an adventure, & if ur watching from the sidelines you’re not really  apart of that adventure.”

By Rick Lawrence talking about how Student Ministry is an adventure at Simply Youth Ministry Conference